Modern people have the opportunity to communicate even with those who live thousands of kilometers. Phone calls, video calls, of course, messages and emails.
That's just all this is sometimes used for other purposes. This is about people who live two blocks from each other or even in the same apartment, but prefer to solve important issues using the phone.
No, this is not a joke, and such personalities exist. They simply cannot gather strength and start a serious conversation. Unfortunately, there have been more and more such people lately.
If you also need to resolve an important issue, do not be tempted to send an email. There are topics on which you need to talk eye to eye. Below is a list of things that should not be written in the message.
10. Bad Health News
It is not easy to report such news, but you should not write about health problems in a message or email. Such a message will not give a person full information, he will begin to worry and may even think that you are indifferent to his feelings.
Gather your strength and talk with loved ones. It may be very difficult for you, but be sure that your relatives will support you and find words of comfort.
In addition, if you report bad news in a message, the recipient may be worried and then you will have to worry not only about your health.
9. Parting
The easiest way to break up is to write a message. No tears, no reproaches, no tantrums, no scandals.
But if you at least have a little respect for your partner and appreciate what was between you, tune in to a conversation.
Yes, this is not easy, but it is impossible to express all your feelings through SMS or email. Thus, you show indifference to the partner, to what was between you.
If you decide to talk, you can discuss all the shortcomings of your relationship. You can talk heart to heart and possibly even remain friends.
If your partner has an unbalanced character, it is better not to leave him alone at such a difficult moment. Do not be afraid of a violent reaction, it is natural.
You will have to listen to a lot of bad things about yourself, to console, but soon the person will calm down and begin to live on. But you will not be remembered as a vile coward who was afraid of a frank conversation.
8. Send passwords
If you want to tell the recipient any passwords, call him. Of course, sending such information in a message is much more convenient. Only if you are worried about security is it best not to do this.
You are sure that the addressee will never use this data against you, but you do not know whose hands his phone can fall into.
Do not forget that any device can be hacked. For experienced hackers, this will not be difficult. If you still decide to send passwords in the message, be prepared for the fact that from now on your data is at risk.
7. Send candid photos
If you have even a little common sense, never send candid photos in a message, especially if your partner does not ask about it. If he does not expect anything like this, most likely your behavior will shock him.
There is a risk that your partner will lose the phone or be hacked, then your personal photos will fall into the wrong hands. Also, do not exclude the possibility that your romance will end not with a wedding, but with a breakup.
You can quarrel a lot, and your chosen one can be a dishonorable person. Many stories are known when offended men and women posted public photos and even candid videos with former partners in the lead role.
6. Spread gossip
If you want to gossip with a friend, discuss someone, do it in person. E-mail and messages are not the best way to transmit such information.
Gossip can catch anyone's eye. You cannot be so confident in a person. Even the closest friend can take a screenshot and use the information against you.
If you don’t want trouble, it’s better not to take part in the discussion of other people.
5. Solve work issues
Are you embarrassed to call your boss or colleague and send SMS in the hope that you can avoid the conversation? It looks pretty stupid. Important issues are best discussed by telephone.
Of course, if it is customary in your company to communicate through emails, then you should not reinvent the wheel. Do as the rest do.
If your case is urgent, cast aside shame and call your boss or colleague. In a personal conversation, you can express your point of view on any issue. If a colleague has an objection, you can convince him.
A business person who values his time is unlikely to want to read long messages, much less respond to them.
4. Complain about his work, husband, friends
If you are unhappy with your work or the behavior of loved ones, you do not need to discuss all this in messages. This is compromising material that can easily ruin your life.
A colleague can pretend to be a friend, in fact, he wants to take your place. A friend who has long been stuffed with friends wants to take your husband away. Nobody is surprised at such stories.
Too gullible people lose everything: work, loved one, friends. Want to complain about life? Buy a bottle of wine, invite a girlfriend and make sure that there are no electronic devices nearby.
3. Apologize
If you are very guilty of a loved one, girlfriend or relative, be courageous and ask for forgiveness by looking into your eyes.
Resist the temptation to send an email or message. You do not know how the offended person will perceive it. Most likely, he will be offended even more. He considers that you did not consider it necessary to apologize in person, respectively, do not respect him and do not attach much importance to his feelings and feelings.
You may be ashamed and unpleasant, but gather your strength and ask for forgiveness in a personal conversation.
2. First declaration of love
If you have been dating not so long ago and want to confess your partner love, do not do this using the phone. These are very important words, but no one will take the phone message seriously, it is faceless and devoid of emotions.
Do not deprive yourself and your soulmate of beautiful memories. Admitting love by SMS, you will not see the reaction of the partner. You will have to wait for an answer.
In addition, the message may not arrive on time, and the person will not be able to feel the joy in full.
Say these important words on a romantic date in a suitable setting. Such a declaration of love will be remembered for a lifetime.
1. Pregnancy Report
Another important news that should not be reported via SMS. It does not matter to whom the message is addressed to the father of the child or the future grandmother, it is better to please people at a meeting.
Like a declaration of love, a pregnancy report may arrive at the wrong time. For example, if your husband has just received a reprimand from your boss, he will not be able to feel positive emotions from the news that he will soon become a dad.
By the way, it has recently become very fashionable to report your pregnancy in an unusual way. Women give her husband and relatives booties or baby things, arrange quests, and prepare themed dinners.
Now you see that there are many ways to please your man in a more original and romantic way.